A Method for Couples to Build Intimacy ... Starting TODAY
July 21, 2022
How can you make an "okay" marriage a good one? A good marriage a great one? How can you turn around a relationship where you seem to be drifting apart?
Here's a great way to do that -- one that doesn't require lots of time or money -- Establish an ongoing pattern of conversations designed to build intimacy. Conversations that can help you stay connected, that can help you work through difficulties, and that draw you closer.
17 years ago, when our marriage was in trouble, Charlene and I were introduced to one such guided conversation pattern. After some fits and starts, we made a commitment to do these conversations regularly. Ever since then, we've been having these conversations at least weekly, and often several times a week.
FANO conversations have changed our marriage for the better -- so much so that both Charlene and I encourage the couples we work with to engage in them as well. Charlene often uses them in her marriage counseling sessions.
We feel so strongly about them that we created this video, which gives an overview of the conversation, and describes why and how to do them. It's 18 minutes long. I would encourage anyone reading this to watch the video with their partner, and try having a few of these conversations. See what happens.
Do not believe us when we talk about how helpful these conversations are. FIND OUT FOR YOURSELF ...
