Renew Resources for Healthy Leaders

Published: Thu, 06/20/13

Renew Resources                     June 20, 2013

Hello -- I hope you like the new format of my newsletter! Here's my news:

(1) In keeping with my move towards doing more work with coaching and mentoring, I have renamed my company "Renew Resources Group" (it has been "Recovery Remixed").
(2) I'm in the process of securing seed funding for several leadership coaching and mentoring groups in the Midwest that will be launching this Fall.
(3) I'm doing research for the book I am writing with Mission publishing. Right now the working title is: "The Not So Overwhelmed Leader: Harnessing wisdom to maximize ministry and minimize stress".

In this Issue:
1. A resource for you - free teleseminar on the power of true community as a leader
2. Feature article: "A note to leaders: the world doesn't revolve around you"
3. Quote of the week
4. Who is sending me this?
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1. A Resource For You:
Free teleseminar on the power of community for leaders
When: Thursday, June 27, 2:00pm Central Time
What: The power of Community for Leaders

This teleseminar will be teaching from Mark Brouwer (with notes and slides) about the danger of isolation for pastors ... what leads to it, and how to overcome it. Based on research for an upcoming article in Leadership Journal, this will be important information for leaders in churches, and people who care about them (especially spouses of leaders and church boards). "There is an epidemic of isolation among leaders in the church today. This is incredibly destructive, and very preventable."

Registration is free, and will include notes, as well as the mp3 audio for your keeping.
2. Feature Article:
A note to leaders: the world doesn't revolve around you

Beware of of the "great man / great woman" image of leadership. Leaders don't lead because they are better / stronger / wiser / more spiritual than others in the organization. Leaders lead because they accept a certain role and exhibit certain skills.

I just read an interesting article by Jurgen Apolo about what he calls "Egocentric Leadership." Listen to what he says:

"I just finished reading The Five Dysfunctions of a Team and I didn't like it. Yes, the message about team formation was quite good, and the model was interesting. But I hated the story. It describes a management team of immature managers, who all seem to be behaving like children. But behold... there is a new and wise CEO who is able to herd them all in the right direction, with a gentle but firm hand. Install a smart and experienced CEO, et voilá... Problem solved...

"It's the same with Good to Great, The 21 Irrefutable Laws of Leadership, The One Minute Manager, and many others. They all assume that the organization is a ship full of lemmings, who are all in desperate need to be led. And that leadership is to be executed by the top lemming, of course.

"It's no wonder such books sell like cupcakes among everyone who enjoys feeling superior to other workers. It satisfies their needs for status and power. Another name would be egocentric leadership.

"Now, don't get me wrong! There are plenty of good ideas and good intentions among the authors of these books. Nice ideas, bad implementation."

Great leadership is the understanding that an organization is a social complex system of knowledge workers. Taking care of the system is just another specialization, just like development, testing, and marketing. Someone has to do it. But nobody is anyone else's superior. We're all in it together.

This is especially true in a church, where we're working with volunteers. We're serving them by making what they do more effective. We facilitate, equip, and encourage.The world doesn't revolve around us.
3. Quote of The Week:
You don't lead by pointing and telling people some place to go. You lead by going to that place and making a case. -Ken Kesey
4. Who is Sending me This?
Mark Brouwer is a pastor, leadership coach, and speaker who helps people live and lead with emotional and spiritual health. He is pastor of Jacob's Well Church Community in Evergreen Park, IL. He is the director of Recovery Resource Group, which offers teaching, mentoring, and coaching. He writes for sexualsanity.com and lastingleaders.com, and is author of the forthcoming book: The Not So Overwhelmed Leader.