The book title: Leaving Your Mark Without Losing Your Mind
The subtitle: Overcoming seven obstacles to doing the important work of your life
The book is all about helping people to find better ways of doing the important work of their lives -- the works of service, or ministry that they were put on earth to do. It's organized around seven roadblocks ... seven things that get
in the way of our service to others. Each of these seven sections is broken down into separate chapters.
Section 1 - Losing touch with what you really care about and are committed to doing
1.1 Leaving Your Mark in the World
1.2 The Spiritual Longing for Significance
1.3 There Are Powerful Forces Keeping Us Stuck in the Status Quo
1.4 Many of Us Go Through Life Like We’re Asleep
1.5 Taking the Long-Term View
1.6 Write
This Down
Section 2 - Getting overwhelmed by the needs you encounter
2.1 Reaching Down and Falling In
2.2 Setting Up a Shield
2.3 Not Every Need Is Yours to Meet
2.4 Not Everybody Wants Your Help
2.5 You Can’t Give It If You Don’t Have It
2.6 Don’t Do Things for Others That They Can Do for Themselves
2.7 Next Steps
Section 3 - Living with confusion about Divine guidance and empowerment
3.1 Overwhelmed by
Spiritual Confusion
3.2 How We Make This Harder Than It Needs to Be
3.3 The Divine Plan Is Not a Mystery
3.4 The Path of Discernment
3.5 Next Steps: A Process for Personal Discernment
3.6 Next Steps: Discerning Divine Guidance for Churches, Governing Boards, and Spiritual Communities
Section 4 - Struggling with not having enough time
4.1 I Know I’m Too Busy, but Why?
4.2 Is Time Really the Issue?
4.3 Why We’re Surprised About How We Use Our
Time
4.4 The Problem Beneath the Problem
4.5 Learning to Ride the Waves Instead of Being Beaten Up by Them
4.6 Other People Can Be Helpful With This, But Often They’re Not
4. 7 You Are Responsible For Your Own Self-care
4.8 Next Steps
Section 5 - Getting burned out by high levels of stress and anxiety
5.1 It’s Just Too Much
5.2 Stress Is Destructive When It’s Chronic
5.3 You Can’t Offer Spiritual Help When You’re Stressed Out and
Anxious
5.4 Antidote 1: Focus on What You Can Actually Do Something About
5.5 Antidote 2: Focus on Today
5.6 Antidote 3: Focus on Creating a Rhythm to Your Life
Section 6 - Feeling disheartened by conflicts and difficult people
6.1 The People Side Is Hard!
6.2 Save Yourself From Pain by Understanding Systems
6.3 Save Yourself From Pain by Honoring Structures
6.4 Insights from One of the Greatest Community Builders of All Time
6.5 Make
Harmony Your Goal, Not Unity
6.6 Spiritual Communities Are No Better at Processing Conflict … and They Might Even Be Worse
6.7 Get Real about Human Nature and Save Yourself A Lot of Pain
6.8 Next Steps
Section 7 - Getting discouraged and losing heart
7.1 Facing Discouragement
7.2 How Do You Measure Success? Can You?
7.3 Faithful vs. Successful
7.4 Most of What Discourages You Is Beyond Your Control Anyway
7.5 Five Things to Do to Deal With
Discouragement